Thursday, October 19, 2006
I suddenly got this random thought in my mind...
Are all men jerks?
Well i was chatting with my female friend today and we were discussing about men and women.
She argued that men are all selfish creatures actually.
Well to cut a long story short, she's lost her faith in men.
So i decided to go online and surf around for information.
Do you there's a book called All Men Are Jerks Until Proven Otherwise?
Written by Daylle Deanna Schwartz, it's about men and why they are jerks.
But it's not all about men-bashing, just... a discussion in a sense.
Here's a short extract from the book.
All Men Are Jerks Until Proven Otherwise encourages women to accept that men have a right to be who they are, whether they like it or not.
It explains the reality of how men think and why they behave and communicate differently. Until women come to terms with the reality that they can only change their own response to a man’s behavior, rather than the man himself, they’ll have a harder time living peacefully with one.
Men aren’t jerks because they don’t live up to a woman’s expectations.
If women would pay more attention to their own well-being, relationships can change for the better.
Schwartz believes that women put too much energy into men, and not enough into themselves saying, "If you want a man, get a life."
When women don’t have their whole life revolving around men, when they can have fun with friends and learn to enjoy their own company, and when they can create a complete life without a man, they’ll have healthier grounds for a relationship.
When women don’t need a man to satisfy every one of their needs, things that annoyed them about men in the past may not bother them so much.
When women have their own life to turn to for satisfaction, men may not seem like such jerks any more.
These kind of women are definitely more attractive to men!
Well, i think i need to get this book, i don't really understand Man myself, let alone Women.
Maybe reading this will help.
Diao.
What am i saying.
Whatever.
What i just want to say is: To understand others, you must first understand yourself.
Cha-tah.
(Am i a jerk?)
popiah
6:24 PM
0 unpassionate people:
Everything i do, i do with passion
